Life is like an 'unsolved' puzzle. No one can define what life is because it is a very complex thing.
It is something that makes you happy and proud at times and makes you feel so low at times that you say to yourself, "What hell is this life!"
In Life, in every moment, something new happens; something that you never expected, something that you were waiting from a long while to happen and something you were expecting to happen. It is a combination of happiness, sorrow, joy, love, anger, enjoyment, loneliness, fear, excitement and many other emotions.
The definition of the word life can't be completed without using the word emotions. Some people work in emotions whereas others work with emotions. So it's very important to understand how people are using their emotions. If they are letting emotions get control over them, then they'll be dragged by others and situations all the time.But, if he is controlling his emotions in a proper way, then no one will ever have control over him.
That is why undrstanding EQ or Emotional Quotient is very important. I just try to control my emotions to a level where things or situations remains under my control. At the same time I believe that displaying emotions is very important in a person's life , simply because it allows others to understand you in proper perspective. However it is also important to know that where and in front of whom you are displaying your emotions. Some persons may misuse your emotions and exploit you. So it is always better to supress your real emotions in front of such persons.
The way a person uses his emotions is what we call attitude. Someone has correctly said, "Your attitude determines your altitude in life".
Attitude is the way an individual uses his emotions and directly related to the psyche of a person. Some people use their emotions in a positive way and some people do it in a negative sense.
It's up to an individual to decide how he uses his emotions.But whatever it is, it is real fun.
2 comments:
Really nice article.Yes , u cant run away from emotions ,so developing EQ is necessary.But it is not that a certain point of time one can say that i have developed full control over emotions bcoz it is a lifelong process due to the fact that our n other's emotions keep on changing with time.ONE area where i need to try working out and which i think is based on a fact is - that emotions need unemotional handling! Two mothers see their kids falling n getting cut .one starts beating heart n weeping ,other quickly gathers him up ,calls an auto n rushes to doctor.Both have emotion of love for their child,just manifestation is different.Another problem is that one has to cope not only with own emotions but also of others .A cruel boss can ruin one's day if we dont know unemotional handling.one does gets affected ,more or less by others emotion of love ,hate,grief,joy etc.being poured .If mean n manipulative people come to know how one will react to any emotion ,they will try to have control over you by playing with your feelings. SO,getting to learn to handle emotions is necessary and should be practised continously.
"Emotions need unemotional handling" ........ well really nice words and true too. Thanx
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