" Pain of loving you....." these are the famous words used by Shri Nirmal verma in one of his novel, perhaps in "Antim aranya". That in real love one is certain to face some pain, particularly if this love is not centric to physical intimacy. i have found the paradox that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.
Loving is a feeling that brings both joy and pain to heart. Joy from being with person one loves , being filled with an emotion so deep and tender that no other feeling can compare. Pain from knowing that he is so in love, that he is more vulnerable than he has been ever
Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. ........... no response from ur loved one and not being able to communicate with her is really paiful.(09.06.09)
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sometimes it seems that the the phrase 'pain of loving''missess the fact that to be in love one has to actually go through process of moving from 'i' to beyond and that it could be painful in itself.Bcoz loving means finding joy in pain of being vulnerable, in being without guard, in being boundryless to facilitate inclusion.It really needs bravery;bravery same as of a defenceless warrior.It is indeed paradox - love may hurt but it also heals.Love means to transform or rather sublimate pain into bliss -in the same way as it is said 'dard ka had se badh jana hai dava hona...'
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